A few months ago Julius reached out to me to get started with some online coaching as he lives over the pond. He has an amazing work ethic and is going about learning Daygame in all the right ways and his results are proof of that. It’s been a pleasure working with him so far and I look forward to guiding him through to the end of his 1000 set apprenticeship. But enough of what I think, let’s hear what he has to say!
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I am American and long lurked on Krauser’s blog, dabbled in “game” (including day time approaches without much technique). It was very hard and basically I thought “I’m good enough, I’ll do the normal stuff – online dating, learn a language, friends, etc”. I had some success, but still disappointing results. I am mid-to-late 30s and realized during a birthday, I am not on the path I need to be to succeed -– and eventually find a LTR/wife. I dabbled for a year in more proactive daytime approaches, and then, this year, I decided to go “all-in” on Daygame.
I wanted to optimize for success and hiring a coach made sense. I needed to see who is active and modern – and in an industry with many scammers, whoI could trust. I came across Tom via Googling; I saw he came from a Krauser/Torero influence (sources I could trust). I saw Tom’s vast blog, books, podcast, etc. I felt like his writing showed he was selling something realistic – and was very blunt about what sort of expectations one can expect. I loved how he took stats a step further and decided to follow his beginner recommended path. I liked that he was actively Daygaming himself and his advice was modern. I signed up for his Patreon and was delighted to see he also posted infield audio – a clear sign of someone I can trust.
I emailed for coaching with the aim to have a recurring relationship, a Jimmy Jambone to guide me on my way, and have been meeting with Tom 2-4 times per month since. I feel as though Tom is genuinely invested in my success and growth, and as someone without a Wing, this has been immensely helpful. I appreciate how he has immense knowledge from the “giants” who came before, and also his own strong opinions mixed with often a dose of reality… I like how he encourages folks to come up with material and he gives actionable exercises to do that. From the sort of advice and detail he’ll share, it’s clear that he is someone who has been and is actively doing this himself – for example, I got off to a successful start but have since fallen into a “revulsion” or “lull” and Tom was very helpful in demonstrating that this is normal.
Another thing that stands out about Tom is he is applying Daygame in a practical way for many folks. For example, many of the main thought leaders were “all-in” on a nomadic/womanizing lifestyle even “ejecting” from normal society and casting off the idea of finding a long-term partner. While I respect that lifestyle, it’s never appealed to me. Tom bridges this gap by himself explaining he wants to have a family, and is practical about his recommendation for most guys: spend a 18 month or so immersive “apprenticeship” and then find a LTR.
It’s hard to give attribution, but results speak for themselves. In the 3 or so months, I’ve been working with Tom, I’ve had 3 notches (and 3 near misses :/) in about ~300 approaches. This included my first jaunt, which Tom was instrumental in helping guide me through. I can feel my technique improving through Tom’s guidance so here’s to hoping the stats/quality improve.
More importantly, I feel like I have discovered a repeatable model to date women, and through Tom’s suggested programming and continued help, a very actionable plan to improve and get where I’d like to be.
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You can find Julius on X here. If you’re interested in coaching with me – online and infield – then please check out my offering here.
Yours unfaithfully,
Thomas Crown
Thomas Crown PUA 