Month: March 2021

Why Do We Calculate Approach to Lay Ratios: Thinking About Stats and Holding Contradictory Views

Here is a recent tweet thread where we went off on a bit of a tangent on A:L: The thread brought up a good point: A:L is meaningful for some people and not for others. I started to think, why count A:L? Why count stats at all? Should we count something else if anything? There … Continue reading Why Do We Calculate Approach to Lay Ratios: Thinking About Stats and Holding Contradictory Views →

How Being In An LTR Has Affected My Daygame: Results, Impacts and Trying to Get the Best of Both Worlds

Recently I was asked to do a post on how my Daygame has changed since being in an LTR. This is that post. The first impact is a simple one: I have less time. Less time for Daygame itself but also less available slots for dates. I always prioritise seeing my girlfriend over scheduling dates. … Continue reading How Being In An LTR Has Affected My Daygame: Results, Impacts and Trying to Get the Best of Both Worlds →

Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF

“As it is not one swallow or a fine day that makes a spring, so it is not one day or a short time that makes a man blessed and happy.” Aristotle Now that’s a nice cheesy start, isn’t it? It’s a fact that habits make up who you are. The daily volatility doesn’t matter … Continue reading Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF →

The Three Connections and Family Background: What To Look Out For In A Girl Before Entering An LTR And Why

I know what you are thinking. That I’m only 28. What can I have to say of value on this topic? Well I’ve been in a relationship for three years (four if you count the time spent as FBs) and so I hope I have something to say on this topic which can help you. … Continue reading The Three Connections and Family Background: What To Look Out For In A Girl Before Entering An LTR And Why →

Topics Raised At A Night Of Drinking At Lee Cho’s: Crazy Things, Front Stops, Doing The Opposite and Age Filtering

The other day I was having some drinks with Lee Cho et al. Here are some of the topics that came up. How Crazy Things Can Become The Norm I remember from Krauser and Street Attraction’s talk at the end of 2017 where someone in the audience asked about what to say in-set. Nick made … Continue reading Topics Raised At A Night Of Drinking At Lee Cho’s: Crazy Things, Front Stops, Doing The Opposite and Age Filtering →

The Bank Of Vibe: An Analogy To Make You A Happier Person

Today’s post is just a short, simple analogy which you can put in your back pocket and take with you as you go. Imagine that your vibe is inside a bank account. You can make deposits and withdrawals. You sometimes pay fees. You can dip into your overdraft. You can get a loan. Fun stuff, … Continue reading The Bank Of Vibe: An Analogy To Make You A Happier Person →

My Sleep Stack: Everything I Throw At The Wall For Better Sleep And Why

Everyone’s talking about sleep these days. There are the obvious health benefits. We’ve known since childhood to get a good night’s sleep. But if you need extra motivation to improve your sleep quality and length then consider how it contributes to your personal energy. Personal energy is a term I picked up from Scott Adams’ … Continue reading My Sleep Stack: Everything I Throw At The Wall For Better Sleep And Why →

In One Ear, Out the Other: Staying Positive in a Cynical World

I have to admit something: I’m an optimist. I’ve always had a rough 6/10 baseline of hope and in general believe things will work out for me in life. Today’s post covers one of the tools I’ve found that I use to stay positive. It’s something we heard since we were kids: “in one ear, … Continue reading In One Ear, Out the Other: Staying Positive in a Cynical World →

How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Scott Adams. Chapter Six: Goals Versus Systems (Summary)

Recently Lee Cho recommended this book to me and I started to see it mentioned in a lot of places. I took that as a sign to read it. It’s very good and I recommend it. Today’s post is a summary of chapter six: the one where Adams introduces the concept of goals versus systems. … Continue reading How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Scott Adams. Chapter Six: Goals Versus Systems (Summary) →