Last year I did some coaching calls with a guy living out in the states who only used apps to meet women. We were talking mostly about texting and Inner Game but I thought that I ought to walk the walk so I could talk the talk when it came to apps (or at least … Continue reading Online Dating
Category: player’s journey
Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
I was inspired to write this post by a recent tweet but I won’t link to it here (there have already been enough personal attacks in this community by whiney man-childs 🤭). The tweet described how the Daygamer approached a girl and then walked with her even though she was completely blanking him. Eventually she … Continue reading Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
How to Lose Weight (14 Point Plan)
I have a student who needs to lose a little bit of weight. He’s hardly obese but he’s let his gut run away from him a little too much and needs to dial it back in. To help with that we’ve been sending each other daily weigh-ins, which I hope will continue to encourage him … Continue reading How to Lose Weight (14 Point Plan)
Guest Lay Report: Mr J’s First Daygame Lay, Freaky French Girl
I first started working with Mr J last year when he had about 75 Daygame approaches under his belt. He reached out to me and we started doing weekly calls where we would talk about his sticking points and go into detail on how to solve them. He recently got his first Daygame lay (and … Continue reading Guest Lay Report: Mr J’s First Daygame Lay, Freaky French Girl
Beyond Daygame Guilt
We're already familiar with Daygamer guilt: the dissonance from thinking/knowing that you ought to be out approaching right now and the reality that you’re not. Or from being out on the streets and not approaching as much as your favourite guru might encourage you to. It comes from all the material you’ve consumed which tells … Continue reading Beyond Daygame Guilt
Should You Approach From The Left Or The Right?
This is perhaps the most serious question you should ask yourself this year: should I approach from the left or the right? “Perhaps” being the operative word there, because it absolutely should. Do not doubt yourself. Ever. Even if what you are saying makes negative-sense. Conviction is the cornerstone of both pick-up and the legal … Continue reading Should You Approach From The Left Or The Right?
The Art of Learning, Josh Waitzkin (Review/Summary)
Josh Waitzkin is somewhat an anomaly when it comes to performance: he is both a champion Chess player and in Tai Chi Push Hands (the martials art form of Tai Chi). How does someone go about being one of the best in the world at two disciplines which, on the surface, appear so different? In … Continue reading The Art of Learning, Josh Waitzkin (Review/Summary)
Guest Post: RawDogPUA Nightgame Q&A Bonanza
RawDog kindly offered to write a guest post on Nightgame for us all and he’s gone into great detail to answer all the questions that came through on Twitter. You should follow him there @RawDogPUA ***** Thanks to Tom for letting me write this post on his blog and thanks to everyone who submitted a … Continue reading Guest Post: RawDogPUA Nightgame Q&A Bonanza
#95-100: The Punchline
“Life is a joke; death is the punchline” Someone, maybe me, I don’t know I made it. I finally made it! After years of arduous effort, long dark nights of the soul, epic introspection and even epic-ker LMR battles I reached the milestone every man dreams of: 100 lifetime lays. Okay, it didn’t actually take … Continue reading #95-100: The Punchline
2023 Coaching
If you enjoy my content and want to improve your Daygame then let’s set up some coaching. I am available at short notice for coaching in London but can travel to other cities in the UK (e.g. Manchester, Liverpool, Birmingham, etc.) and in Europe (e.g. Prague, Warsaw, Belgrade, etc.) if we plan ahead. If you … Continue reading 2023 Coaching
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