I think a lot of guys get the wrong end of the stick here. They’re told that to improve their Daygame they need to be a strong extrovert. Naturally, after forcing themselves into talking to a lot of people they get tired, feel incongruent and give up. Whenever you push against your nature like this … Continue reading Do You Need to be Mr Social to Succeed in Daygame?
Month: January 2026
MARCH LONDON DAYGAME BOOTCAMP ANNOUNCEMENT (7th – 8th March)
Spring is here and it's time to dust off those boots and hit the streets. Or perhaps take your first foray into the world of Daygame. Either way, a bootcamp is the perfect start to the year. The bootcamp will take place on the weekend 7th and 8th of March. It's for two students and … Continue reading MARCH LONDON DAYGAME BOOTCAMP ANNOUNCEMENT (7th – 8th March)
Remembering Tom Torero Four Years On
I was recently thinking about how we were coming up to the five year anniversary of Tom’s tragic passing. Then Barry Burgle linked to a compilation of his Black Sheep Bandit YouTube series on X and I thought I had to bring it forward. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJQMkQSsKwk Tom was a fascinating character. A man who seemed to … Continue reading Remembering Tom Torero Four Years On
Why Do Girls Flake?
This question came up recently on X and a lot of people weighed in with good suggestions such as it being in women’s erratic, emotional nature. All of them fell short, though, because I think that girl’s flaking will always be interest based. If a girl is interested enough then she’ll show up for a … Continue reading Why Do Girls Flake?
The Other 10% is Polarisation?
“Showing up is 90% of success” I always thought that this was one of those "Confucius says” quotes but apparently it was Woody Allen. I was talking today with Breeze and this came up. We went off on a tangent and talked about how people like Woody Allen and Billy Crystal can have a particular … Continue reading The Other 10% is Polarisation?
Stop Thinking About ROI
You see this kind of statement thrown around a lot, typically by guys who aren’t getting any: What’s my ROI? I can’t put my finger on why, exactly, but I have never met a great Gamer who talks about ROI. My best guess is that it’s an ego defense mechanism. I can imagine someone sitting … Continue reading Stop Thinking About ROI
Where Did All the Good Girls Go?
There’s a whole lot of binary going around these days. Either she’s a whore or she’s a timewaster. You’re either the player or you’re being played. Well, the world isn’t so black and white. That girl will be a whore for one guy and a timewaster for another because of her upbringing, genetics and your … Continue reading Where Did All the Good Girls Go?
My Advice to Anyone Starting Daygame This Year
In a world of social media, dating apps and a smörgåsbord of gurus telling us that the Game has changed, we all need to stay centred. If we believed all of our neurotic thoughts then we’d never leave the house. A lot of guys run that exact risk and that’s why today I want to … Continue reading My Advice to Anyone Starting Daygame This Year
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