Last month I ran a bootcamp in London with two solid guys: 50s Daygame and Mr D. Let’s hear what they had to say!
If you’re interested in attending a bootcamp then I will be holding the next one on 10th and 11th May in London. I’ll be posting the details soon but if you’d like to jump the queue then send me a message via my coaching page.
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I was always just an average nice guy who’d done ‘ok’ with women. I’d had a few girlfriends and a couple of long term relationships but it was always the women choosing me. If she liked me then I’d stumble into a relationship with her because that’s how it’d always been.
As I got older though, fewer women were choosing me and because all my relationships eventually ended I started to think maybe it’s because I never actually thought about what I wanted from women.
I found out about daygame but it wasn’t until I tried to approach women that I discovered how difficult it was, how bad my AA was and how I pretty much had zero game.
I’d read about bootcamps and knew who the top coaches were but never thought it’d be something I’d do. I liked Tom because he was always the friendliest and most responsive of the coaches over social media, as well as the most reasonably priced.
I knew my daygame would never take off unless I had a coach to help me take the first step. At 51 years old I had all the usual doubts – I’m too old, the women will think I’m weird, dating is over for me so why waste my money etc. But I also felt like I was at rock bottom so if it didn’t work out for me then at least I tried.
The first thing to note about Tom is that he’s so generous with his time. The actual daygame is timed to keep you motivated but he offers a lot of his time for meeting beforehand, debriefs and feedback.
Tom is also very calm and relaxed, pitches his coaching where you’re at and makes approaching women in the street feel like the most natural thing in the world.
From never having done a proper daygame approach I approached 25 women over the two days, had some great conversations and even got two numbers. I look at the streets and approaching women completely differently now.
If you’re thinking about coaching or a bootcamp then book Tom. You won’t regret it and it may well change your life.
– 50s Daygame
Before joining Tom’s March bootcamp, I had already done three one-on-one coaching sessions with him. Those previous experiences were very valuable and insightful, and as someone still relatively new to daygame, I felt ready to take things to the next level—so I signed up for the bootcamp.
A week before the weekend, we had a group call together, followed by a casual meetup for drinks on the Friday night before the big weekend. That helped prepare us and built a sense of camaraderie going into the weekend.
Each bootcamp is limited to just two students, and Tom did a fantastic job coaching both of us simultaneously. It felt like I got all the benefits of one-on-one coaching, with the added bonus of learning from the other student’s approaches—seeing his strengths and sticking points. Plus, it was great to make acquaintances with someone else who’s also learning daygame.
Over the weekend, I did more than 30 approaches, walked away very happy with my progress, and picked up a bunch of new insights from Tom.
Whether you’re new to the game or already have some experience, I definitely recommend doing a bootcamp with Tom.
– Mr D
Thomas Crown PUA 