Oftentimes, when you get better at something, it’s the small things that mean a lot more. They stand out to you and you see how all the diamonds were hiding in plain sight. One of those small things comes from Primal Seduction (2nd Edition) which Steve Jabba co-wrote with Nick Krauser. I can’t remember the exact words but it was along the lines of:
She finds You in all your entirety attractive
Capitalising that “You” makes a world of difference.
We can break Sexual Market Value (SMV) into three broad categories: status (including money), looks and charisma (including Game and vibe). We can also say that for a girl to find us attractive there has to be a certain amount of click. For example, are you both internally or externally referenced and to what degree? Are you more of a pleasure seeker or a happiness builder (this maps roughly to r and K selection and sexual strategy)?
Breaking down SMV and attraction in that way is useful because it:
- Helps you to understand which areas you need to work on.
- Highlights that for someone to want someone else, they must necessarily value something in the other person. That is, you actually have to have something she wants.
Saying that, we all know that there’s no formula being consciously calculated in anyone’s head. It is based on feeling and a reaction ranging from “Yes! Please!” to “No! Eww!” Remember that humans aren’t good at guessing exact numbers but they are masters at judging relatively. They can’t tell you what the exact temperature of a room is but they can easily say which is hotter and colder. What is all of that feeling and reaction based on? You! Capital Y.
This is why we can’t ever say that a lay purely came from Game, looks, money, status, vibe or anything else because she is seeing you in your entirety. Every experience in your life and everything about you lead you to this moment and you’re testing to see whether she’ll consume your enzyme and vice versa. I like to use the word “enzyme” because it alludes to how there are only so many girls out there who are meant to be with you and you with them. Our job is to find them.
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