I’ve been having a mishmash of thoughts recently about what makes a great Daygamer. I’m not talking about looks, their ability to follow a model or even their likeability. I’m talking about how their brain works at a deep level and how it’s conducive to being successful. These are the factors which would suggest a … Continue reading The Daygame Brain: “You Can Just Do Things”
Category: principles
The 7-38-55 Rule of Communication
This rule comes up all the time in pick-up. It was observed and developed by psychologist Albert Mehrabian in 1967 and states that roughly: 7% of communication comes from the literal words we speak 38% of communication comes from tone, pitch and rhythm 55% of communication comes from body language And yet… and yet… guys … Continue reading The 7-38-55 Rule of Communication
Crown’s First Law of Brutality
I admit, I have a flaw (shock horror). My thinking is quite brutal. I try to let people down easily but I can’t lie to them either and the way I see it, life is quite brutal. Incentives make the world go around and at our heart we are machiavellian beings who will work towards … Continue reading Crown’s First Law of Brutality
Winners Win AND Lose More Than Losers
I’ve noticed recently that beginners often have this one weird sticking point/tick: they’re always trying to have everything. No, I don’t mean that in the “you go grrrrl you can have whatever you want” vein. I also am not talking about the idea that because they’re not “6 ‘5, blue eyes, finance” that they shouldn’t … Continue reading Winners Win AND Lose More Than Losers
Who Should You Listen To?
I was emailing back and forth with a student and he mentioned what people had said on a subreddit. This was my response: Honestly I wouldn't [pay] attention to Reddit as it's [completely] unverified. A lot of the guys on there are simply repeating what they think is true rather than what they've experienced in … Continue reading Who Should You Listen To?
Obsessively Compulsively Daygaming
When I started Daygame, it was the only thing I wanted to think about. I wanted to read all the books. Watch all the videos. Listen to all the podcasts. Of course, I was also getting my sets, week in week out, no questions asked. Even if it was raining or snowing, I still got … Continue reading Obsessively Compulsively Daygaming
Learn Daygame Through the English Method
Many years ago I was at a Daygame seminar and an American lad asked the speaker about his thoughts on something and referred to “the London school.” As in, the London School of Daygame (not to be compared to the London School of Economics) compared to, say, the American or European School(s) of Daygame. His … Continue reading Learn Daygame Through the English Method
You (Capital Y): What Does She Find Attractive?
Oftentimes, when you get better at something, it’s the small things that mean a lot more. They stand out to you and you see how all the diamonds were hiding in plain sight. One of those small things comes from Primal Seduction (2nd Edition) which Steve Jabba co-wrote with Nick Krauser. I can’t remember the … Continue reading You (Capital Y): What Does She Find Attractive?
What Is Your Potential Quality In Daygame?
Last week I Tweeted (X’d?) the below and it got a lot of reactions; today I want to go through this in detail: https://twitter.com/CrownDaygame/status/1683408000067817473 I’m sure that as some people read through this there’ll be mixed reactions ranging from “you’re spot on” to “you’re an idiot.” To the latter group I simply say: “Believe what … Continue reading What Is Your Potential Quality In Daygame?
Lower Intermediate Hell (Rant)
This post is supposed to be a kick up the arse for those who are stuck in Lower Intermediate Hell. I've been purposefully harsh in this post so if something comes up that you disagree with let's talk about it in the comments. First, please watch this quick video which Juergen - who wrote the … Continue reading Lower Intermediate Hell (Rant)
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