Recently I put out a couple of podcasts: one on shit tests and one on No girls (links here and here respectively). Today I want to talk about how the metaphors we use can come back to bite us and can be harmful to our Inner Game, specifically by looking at the terms shit tests, … Continue reading Good Faith Game: Shit Tests, Timewasters and LMR (How Our Metaphors Come Back to Bite Us)
Category: Inner Game
Good Faith Game: Developing Authenticity
This is part three of a series I’ve been writing since March whenever I feel inspired. Today’s post is about developing and incorporating authenticity into your Daygame and why you should do it. Parts one and two can be found here and here respectively. I should also say that this post is my interpretation on … Continue reading Good Faith Game: Developing Authenticity
Why I Won’t Post +1’s Anymore
"If you get laid and don't post a +1, did you even get laid?" I saw this tweet by Naughty Nomad all the way back in April and it really struck a chord: https://twitter.com/NaughtyNomad/status/1651892748092424196 I asked myself: what do I gain from posting them? Am I letting my followers on Twitter know how I’m getting … Continue reading Why I Won’t Post +1’s Anymore
https://easypeasymethod.org/ (featuring RawDog PUA)
There was a recent conversation on Twitter where Aus (link) was talking about trying NoFap and quitting porn. RawDog then went on to recommend a resource called "The Easy Peasy Method" (for quitting porn) and I wanted to write a quick post recommending it today.* * To an outsider those two sentences must have sounded … Continue reading https://easypeasymethod.org/ (featuring RawDog PUA)
Good Faith Game, Part 2: Why, Thought Processes and Boundaries
Part One can be found here (link) ***** Taking people in good faith means giving them the benefit of the doubt. It means taking a default position that people are willing to engage in win-win, collaborative interactions with you. If you want to stay in Game for the long run and have good Inner Game, … Continue reading Good Faith Game, Part 2: Why, Thought Processes and Boundaries
Q&A: What Are Your Main Inner Game Challenges/Struggles At The Moment?
I recently received this interesting question on Twitter via DM’s: Hi Thomas. Got a question for your webpage. I really enjoy the inner game aspects you discuss. I am curious of one thing. As an experienced daygamer who seems to have his shit together, what are you main inner game challenges/struggles at this moment? One … Continue reading Q&A: What Are Your Main Inner Game Challenges/Struggles At The Moment?
Q&A: Should You Screen Hard For Sexual Girls And Bin An “I Hope She Likes Me” Frame?
A wing here sent me this by GLL. Be interested in your thoughts. To sum up, you must screen hard for girls who are sexual. You must bin a “I hope she likes me” frame. I’d say they’re obvious points but the detail of it is debatable Recently a previous student/wing/friend sent me a podcast … Continue reading Q&A: Should You Screen Hard For Sexual Girls And Bin An “I Hope She Likes Me” Frame?
Q&A: How Do You Avoid the Mentality of “Bothering” A Girl When Approaching?
How do you avoid the mentality of "bothering" a girl by approaching? I wanted to answer this question because it’s come up in conversation a couple of times recently. I’ll let you know what I think you should do first as a beginner, then as a lower intermediate and beyond before finally talking about the … Continue reading Q&A: How Do You Avoid the Mentality of “Bothering” A Girl When Approaching?
Online Dating
Last year I did some coaching calls with a guy living out in the states who only used apps to meet women. We were talking mostly about texting and Inner Game but I thought that I ought to walk the walk so I could talk the talk when it came to apps (or at least … Continue reading Online Dating
Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
I was inspired to write this post by a recent tweet but I won’t link to it here. The tweet described how the Daygamer approached a girl and then walked with her even though she was completely blanking him. Eventually she was about to step out into traffic when he grabbed her arm to pull … Continue reading Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy