I was recently thinking about how we were coming up to the five year anniversary of Tom’s tragic passing. Then Barry Burgle linked to a compilation of his Black Sheep Bandit YouTube series on X and I thought I had to bring it forward. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJQMkQSsKwk Tom was a fascinating character. A man who seemed to … Continue reading Remembering Tom Torero Four Years On
Why Do Girls Flake?
This question came up recently on X and a lot of people weighed in with good suggestions such as it being in women’s erratic, emotional nature. All of them fell short, though, because I think that girl’s flaking will always be interest based. If a girl is interested enough then she’ll show up for a … Continue reading Why Do Girls Flake?
The Other 10% is Polarisation?
“Showing up is 90% of success” I always thought that this was one of those "Confucius says” quotes but apparently it was Woody Allen. I was talking today with Breeze and this came up. We went off on a tangent and talked about how people like Woody Allen and Billy Crystal can have a particular … Continue reading The Other 10% is Polarisation?
Stop Thinking About ROI
You see this kind of statement thrown around a lot, typically by guys who aren’t getting any: What’s my ROI? I can’t put my finger on why, exactly, but I have never met a great Gamer who talks about ROI. My best guess is that it’s an ego defense mechanism. I can imagine someone sitting … Continue reading Stop Thinking About ROI
Where Did All the Good Girls Go?
There’s a whole lot of binary going around these days. Either she’s a whore or she’s a timewaster. You’re either the player or you’re being played. Well, the world isn’t so black and white. That girl will be a whore for one guy and a timewaster for another because of her upbringing, genetics and your … Continue reading Where Did All the Good Girls Go?
My Advice to Anyone Starting Daygame This Year
In a world of social media, dating apps and a smörgåsbord of gurus telling us that the Game has changed, we all need to stay centred. If we believed all of our neurotic thoughts then we’d never leave the house. A lot of guys run that exact risk and that’s why today I want to … Continue reading My Advice to Anyone Starting Daygame This Year
Eight Bitter Years Free Chapter (What Makes a Good Student?)
My new book is out now and I decided to post a free chapter for you guys to get a taste ***** WHAT MAKES A GOOD STUDENT Do you want to know the dirty secret to Daygame coaching? The student makes the coach Daygame coaching is only as good as the guy receiving it. As … Continue reading Eight Bitter Years Free Chapter (What Makes a Good Student?)
NOVEMBER LONDON DAYGAME BOOTCAMP ANNOUNCEMENT (8/9th November)
Autumn is here and the students are back. Are you going to be left at home with your thumb up your arse? (Or up her arse?) The bootcamp will take place on the weekend 8th and 9th of November. It's for two students, costs £800 and involves at least four hours of coaching per day … Continue reading NOVEMBER LONDON DAYGAME BOOTCAMP ANNOUNCEMENT (8/9th November)
Comfort, Serious and Banter Girls (Building Your Calibration)
As promised in this month’s long form Spotify podcast, here’s the companion post which summarises the concept and provides you with a written reference. https://open.spotify.com/episode/2HBSlWaBicLc5IjTOMI46w?si=Yk8Tjah6SeGZgKvkoQvf5A One theme that connects nearly all Game advice is that it’s based on getting girls to laugh. It puts being “cocky funny” forward as the best way to act around … Continue reading Comfort, Serious and Banter Girls (Building Your Calibration)
Poland Daygame Testimonial by Kosta
Earlier this year I was in Poland and had the pleasure of coaching Kosta. He's an intermediate and already has plenty of Daygame lays under his belt so it was great to build on what he already knew. Let's hear what he had to say about our time together. ***** Before working with Tomas, I … Continue reading Poland Daygame Testimonial by Kosta
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