I first started working with Mr J last year when he had about 75 Daygame approaches under his belt. He reached out to me and we started doing weekly calls where we would talk about his sticking points and go into detail on how to solve them. He recently got his first Daygame lay (and … Continue reading Guest Lay Report: Mr J’s First Daygame Lay, Freaky French Girl
Category: player’s journey
Beyond Daygame Guilt
We're already familiar with Daygamer guilt: the dissonance from thinking/knowing that you ought to be out approaching right now and the reality that you’re not. Or from being out on the streets and not approaching as much as your favourite guru might encourage you to. It comes from all the material you’ve consumed which tells … Continue reading Beyond Daygame Guilt
Should You Approach From The Left Or The Right?
This is perhaps the most serious question you should ask yourself this year: should I approach from the left or the right? “Perhaps” being the operative word there, because it absolutely should. Do not doubt yourself. Ever. Even if what you are saying makes negative-sense. Conviction is the cornerstone of both pick-up and the legal … Continue reading Should You Approach From The Left Or The Right?
The Art of Learning, Josh Waitzkin (Review/Summary)
Josh Waitzkin is somewhat an anomaly when it comes to performance: he is both a champion Chess player and in Tai Chi Push Hands (the martials art form of Tai Chi). How does someone go about being one of the best in the world at two disciplines which, on the surface, appear so different? In … Continue reading The Art of Learning, Josh Waitzkin (Review/Summary)
Guest Post: RawDogPUA Nightgame Q&A Bonanza
RawDog kindly offered to write a guest post on Nightgame for us all and he’s gone into great detail to answer all the questions that came through on Twitter. You should follow him there @RawDogPUA ***** Thanks to Tom for letting me write this post on his blog and thanks to everyone who submitted a … Continue reading Guest Post: RawDogPUA Nightgame Q&A Bonanza
#95-100: The Punchline
“Life is a joke; death is the punchline” Someone, maybe me, I don’t know I made it. I finally made it! After years of arduous effort, long dark nights of the soul, epic introspection and even epic-ker LMR battles I reached the milestone every man dreams of: 100 lifetime lays. Okay, it didn’t actually take … Continue reading #95-100: The Punchline
2024 Coaching & End of Year Europe Dates
If you enjoy my content and want to improve your Daygame let's set up some coaching. I am available in UK and Europe for infield coaching and can provide online coaching worldwide. If you’re interested then please follow the link below, where you can find the full details of what the coaching entails, different types … Continue reading 2024 Coaching & End of Year Europe Dates
Coaching Review by Bart
I’ve been working with Bart for a while now and he kindly wrote up a quick review for the coaching I did for him. I talk with Bart every couple of weeks, whether that’s on the phone or in person as infield coaching and in my opinion this is the best kind of coaching someone … Continue reading Coaching Review by Bart
Give ‘Em Hell, Kid. Vol 2: A Beginner’s Guide To Texting, Out Now!
My beginner's texting guide is out now: BUY NOW Here are the contents: This guide is written in an easy to follow way and is packed full of rules of thumb. It was born out of a coaching call where the student needed lots of help with his texting and so is designed for guys … Continue reading Give ‘Em Hell, Kid. Vol 2: A Beginner’s Guide To Texting, Out Now!
#10: Interview with Joe (Daygaming Circa 1996 And Daygame In Your 40s), Out Now
In this podcast I talk to Joe, a guy who’s been Daygaming since 1996 (!) and is now in his 40s. We cover how he got into Game, what it was like before the London Daygame Model and what’s important as an older man. You can find the podcast on Spotify and a full list … Continue reading #10: Interview with Joe (Daygaming Circa 1996 And Daygame In Your 40s), Out Now
