Why Do We Calculate Approach to Lay Ratios: Thinking About Stats and Holding Contradictory Views

Here is a recent tweet thread where we went off on a bit of a tangent on A:L: The thread brought up a good point: A:L is meaningful for some people and not for others. I started to think, why count A:L? Why count stats at all? Should we count something else if anything? There … Continue reading Why Do We Calculate Approach to Lay Ratios: Thinking About Stats and Holding Contradictory Views

Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF

“As it is not one swallow or a fine day that makes a spring, so it is not one day or a short time that makes a man blessed and happy.” Aristotle Now that’s a nice cheesy start, isn’t it? It’s a fact that habits make up who you are. The daily volatility doesn’t matter … Continue reading Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF

The Three Connections and Family Background: What To Look Out For In A Girl Before Entering An LTR And Why

I know what you are thinking. That I’m only 28. What can I have to say of value on this topic? Well I’ve been in a relationship for three years (four if you count the time spent as FBs) and so I hope I have something to say on this topic which can help you. … Continue reading The Three Connections and Family Background: What To Look Out For In A Girl Before Entering An LTR And Why

My Sleep Stack: Everything I Throw At The Wall For Better Sleep And Why

Everyone’s talking about sleep these days. There are the obvious health benefits. We’ve known since childhood to get a good night’s sleep. But if you need extra motivation to improve your sleep quality and length then consider how it contributes to your personal energy. Personal energy is a term I picked up from Scott Adams’ … Continue reading My Sleep Stack: Everything I Throw At The Wall For Better Sleep And Why

In One Ear, Out the Other: Staying Positive in a Cynical World

I have to admit something: I’m an optimist. I’ve always had a rough 6/10 baseline of hope and in general believe things will work out for me in life. Today’s post covers one of the tools I’ve found that I use to stay positive. It’s something we heard since we were kids: “in one ear, … Continue reading In One Ear, Out the Other: Staying Positive in a Cynical World

How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Scott Adams. Chapter Six: Goals Versus Systems (Summary)

Recently Lee Cho recommended this book to me and I started to see it mentioned in a lot of places. I took that as a sign to read it. It’s very good and I recommend it. Today’s post is a summary of chapter six: the one where Adams introduces the concept of goals versus systems. … Continue reading How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Scott Adams. Chapter Six: Goals Versus Systems (Summary)

Luck, The Missing Ingredient (Part 2)

This post is the second of a two part series on the “missing ingredients” needed for successful Daygame. Read as much theory and learn as many techniques as you like and grow your SMV and you’ll still need these things to succeed. You’ll find the first post on the quality of “sisu” here. Luck is … Continue reading Luck, The Missing Ingredient (Part 2)

You Do Not Decide Your SMV (plus anchoring, SMV and the SMP)

Recently Pink Panther and I had a debate on Twitter in response to this tweet: He then put up a post on his blog to continue the debate: I messaged PP about this to confirm this is what his theory is and in today’s post I’m going to respond to it: That between a female … Continue reading You Do Not Decide Your SMV (plus anchoring, SMV and the SMP)