Why is my flake rate so much higher these days? I’ve been asked this a few times and have a Skype call booked to go over why a guy’s numbers are more flaky these days. The simple answer is COVID, but guys don’t seem to be appreciating how much an effect this can have on … Continue reading Feeling Ill, Short Post (Why Is My Flake Rate So Much Higher These Days)
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Feeling Ill, Short Post (Managing the Process Between the 1st and 2nd Date)
How do you manage the “process” between 1st and 2nd date? There’s a big section in Daygame Infinite on the bubble burst period i.e. what to do after the first date, but I find that for me, in London, there’s not a lot of difference as to when I take her number initially. I send … Continue reading Feeling Ill, Short Post (Managing the Process Between the 1st and 2nd Date)
Feeling Ill, Short Post (Approach at Any Time vs Being Off the Clock)
I’ve been feeling very ill for the past few days - literally bedridden - and so this week’s posts are late. They are also going to be very short but I wanted to get something out so that I could continue my “three posts a week” streak. I’ll release a post like this one tomorrow … Continue reading Feeling Ill, Short Post (Approach at Any Time vs Being Off the Clock)
Lessons From This Weekend’s Coaching #3
Here’s another edition of this series. This time the student’s name was Mark and here’s his testimonial. I thought that since it was longer I would post the whole thing here with an abridged version on the coaching and testimonials page. Under Mark’s testimonial is the advice I sent to him after the session. To … Continue reading Lessons From This Weekend’s Coaching #3
How to Improve Your Quality
What is the best way to increase constantly the quality of girls your sleeping with? This was one of the questions that came from my coaching clients and I had enough to say to turn it into a full-length post. First we need to start with a disclaimer: there is a cap to how well … Continue reading How to Improve Your Quality
Q&A Part 2
I continue the Q&A series today, with a focus on beginner related questions. You can check out the first part here. These are all questions from my coaching clients and so give you a taste of the ongoing value you get from hiring me. What do you think is the most common reason for beginners … Continue reading Q&A Part 2
Progressive Overload
I recently saw this tweet from Mr. B and thought it would be a great opportunity to talk about progressive overload in Daygame. The thing is, reaching the optimal point / your potential / achieving anything is actually very simple. You just have to start at the lowest point possible and then slowly become better: … Continue reading Progressive Overload
Q&A Part 1
I recently went out to all of my coaching clients to ask them for questions for a Q&A (yet another long term benefit to hiring me for coaching!). There was a strong response and I have enough questions for at least two posts on the matter. Today I want to answer some of the questions … Continue reading Q&A Part 1
Atomic Habits, James Clear (Review/Summary)
I recently finished reading Atomic Habits by James Clear and wanted to bring its ideas to you today. This was another recommendation from Kaiser, who previously recommended that I read The Big Five for Life by John Strelecky, and links into a recommendation from Lee Cho to read How to Fail at Almost Everything by … Continue reading Atomic Habits, James Clear (Review/Summary)
How I Offer the Bounce Back
I’ve recently been thinking a lot more about my dating, and trying to get my ratio of dates to lays to be lower. That led me to thinking about the different ways I try to get a girl back to mine, which I’ll go through today. This is all part of me dealing with my … Continue reading How I Offer the Bounce Back
