I continue the Q&A series today, with a focus on beginner related questions. You can check out the first part here. These are all questions from my coaching clients and so give you a taste of the ongoing value you get from hiring me. What do you think is the most common reason for beginners … Continue reading Q&A Part 2
Category: practical
Progressive Overload
I recently saw this tweet from Mr. B and thought it would be a great opportunity to talk about progressive overload in Daygame. The thing is, reaching the optimal point / your potential / achieving anything is actually very simple. You just have to start at the lowest point possible and then slowly become better: … Continue reading Progressive Overload
Q&A Part 1
I recently went out to all of my coaching clients to ask them for questions for a Q&A (yet another long term benefit to hiring me for coaching!). There was a strong response and I have enough questions for at least two posts on the matter. Today I want to answer some of the questions … Continue reading Q&A Part 1
Atomic Habits, James Clear (Review/Summary)
I recently finished reading Atomic Habits by James Clear and wanted to bring its ideas to you today. This was another recommendation from Kaiser, who previously recommended that I read The Big Five for Life by John Strelecky, and links into a recommendation from Lee Cho to read How to Fail at Almost Everything by … Continue reading Atomic Habits, James Clear (Review/Summary)
How I Offer the Bounce Back
I’ve recently been thinking a lot more about my dating, and trying to get my ratio of dates to lays to be lower. That led me to thinking about the different ways I try to get a girl back to mine, which I’ll go through today. This is all part of me dealing with my … Continue reading How I Offer the Bounce Back
Just Get to the Point, Part 2 (Texting)
A few weeks ago I wrote a post about guys not moving the seduction forward. After talking to a few Daygamers recently I thought I should definitely write a follow-up, this time specifically about texting. If you want full A-Z guides to texting then read the epicly long section in Daygame Infinite and Mr V’s … Continue reading Just Get to the Point, Part 2 (Texting)
Back In The Saddle Again (Part 3)
This will be my final post on my return to Daygame since the end of lockdown. My overarching opinion is that London is back; not to its full potential, but it’s back. Though there are less students and tourists, there are still enough sets to go around, plus all the date venues are reopened. Hopefully … Continue reading Back In The Saddle Again (Part 3)
Lessons From This Weekend’s Coaching #2
I’m going to turn this into a small series and bring out a post where I have lessons to share from a previous coaching session. This weekend’s student was called Chris - his testimonial is now on the coaching and testimonials page - and here are a few points from the couple of hours of … Continue reading Lessons From This Weekend’s Coaching #2
Reframing Negative Self-Talk
This post is going to be a quick and simple one, and describes another tool which I gave to Callum when we did some coaching on the weekend. As a beginner/intermediate, it can turn into a depressing time on the street if you let your negative self-talk get to you. That’s why you should identify … Continue reading Reframing Negative Self-Talk
The Charisma Myth, Olivia Fox Cabane (Review/Summary)
I recently finished re-reading The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane and today I want to share some of its lessons with you and give you my recommendation. This book falls firmly into the practicable camp, rather than Seven Habits, which was a lot more foundational. I prefer the practical books, though, since I already … Continue reading The Charisma Myth, Olivia Fox Cabane (Review/Summary)
