20 year old English girl. I went for the SDL on Wednesday and got her to my doorstep but she wouldn't come in. Closed last night after a few drinks. I plan to get this lay report up as soon as I finish writing the last one (go me), as well as two quick date … Continue reading +1, lay report to follow
+1 and Week in Review (with stats)
As you can tell from the title of this post, I got a new lay last night. 22 years old but nothing special in all other regards; I thought I was in for an interesting flag (Zambian; she’s mixed race) but it turns out she was born in England. Oh well. In other news here … Continue reading +1 and Week in Review (with stats)
Lessons From Another I-Date
Read a previous post of this nature here. I was out on Wednesday and really wanted to push for a SDL; I just had this notion in my head and I wanted to satisfy it. It was a bad idea. It was my third set of the evening (I was Daygaming after work) and I … Continue reading Lessons From Another I-Date
Week in Review (Stats and Reflections)
I wanted to round off this week with my stats and give a little reflection on them. To recap very quickly, I’m going out more and doing more sets with the aim of allowing more randomness back into my life. The stats this week have been: 31 sets and 13 numbers. Now let’s pick those … Continue reading Week in Review (Stats and Reflections)
Amplifying Pain Points & Escalation-Laced Stacks (Field Report 31st July)
I was out Daygaming yesterday and it was, in my opinion, the perfect weather for Daygame. I prefer it a little cooler, because of my temperament, and so the ~20 degree heat and cool breeze felt absolutely amazing. I had some goals for the session: 6-10 sets: this is in keeping with my choice to … Continue reading Amplifying Pain Points & Escalation-Laced Stacks (Field Report 31st July)
Dynamic Quality
If the first half of this year was characterised by Static Quality, then the second half will be characterised by its counterpart: Dynamic Quality. These are terms introduced in Robert Pirsig’s Metaphysics of Quality through his two books: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, and Lila. A the most macro level Static Quality represents … Continue reading Dynamic Quality
Moving On
I’m sitting in my empty flat and everything’s bare. I’m only able to post this entry because of the wifi hotspot I’m casting from my phone. The flat looks as if a squatter has moved in, except he’s me. A few prized possessions are in a small pile on the ledge for me to remember … Continue reading Moving On
High Energy and Low Energy Daygame
Over the first half of 2018 it has been made apparent to me that there are two ways to practice Daygame: high energy (HE) and low energy (lE) (blog posts inspiring this one: here and here). Both have different aims, structure, levels of enjoyment, and even physiological experience. So as the British heatwave rumbles on … Continue reading High Energy and Low Energy Daygame
#48: Muh-Lay-Sia
The beaming sun beamed down onto muh-face. Holy moly it’s hot, I thought to myself, I’m even reusing words in the same sentence. Cuckily I’d slathered on some factor 50 before leaving muh-flat earlier that day. No muh-lanoma for me, thank you! I gently licked the inside of muh-cheek where I’d bitten it the night … Continue reading #48: Muh-Lay-Sia
Mini-London Number Farm (June 21st – June 24th)
For the past four days I’ve been out Daygaming in London and I thought I would do something a little different and give a field report. I write the date reports and lay reports, both of which include descriptions of the street interactions, but I don’t cover the literal Daygame in nearasmuch detail. This post … Continue reading Mini-London Number Farm (June 21st – June 24th)
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