“So, how old do you think I am?”. She touched a finger to her full lips and gave me a once over. “Hmmm, I think around 32.” Those words were spoken to me on a recent i-date. She was 24, from Moldova, and told me that she prefers men who are around that age. Clearly … Continue reading Age
Category: player’s journey
Jealousy
One of the main reasons why I started this blog was to mull over my thoughts. Writing is thinking. By writing, I understand the world better. Writing this has given me a lot of perspective, not just for current events but also for how the LDM founders might think about myself. I sent it to … Continue reading Jealousy
Harem Manager 2017
This is a first draft of a chapter from my 2016-17 Daygame memoir: Demolition Lovers. I’m currently working through the second draft, which is why my blog posts have been much scarcer. From there, I just need one more pass through and it’s done. I hope to get it out by May, just in time … Continue reading Harem Manager 2017
February Ruminations
Daygame (and stats) 60 approaches, 17 numbers, 2 dates, 1 lay. I was on holiday for five days mid-month and had a girl come and stay with me for a weekend; it affected my results. Not only through the obvious - that I wasn’t in London - but also the fact that I was approaching … Continue reading February Ruminations
Social Circles
I’ve found that as I’ve progressed along this journey, the amount of blue pill friends I have has gone way down. And not even just the proportion of friends who are blue pill, but the total number. The red pill really does switch you from wanting one girlfriend and lots of friends to lots of … Continue reading Social Circles
January Ruminations
I’ve decided to write a little “ruminations” post at the end of each month to recap what went on and what made me stop and think. I’ll be including statistics for each month as well. Statistics In January, I promised that I was going to be doing 40-50 sets a week to get the ball … Continue reading January Ruminations
Date Report: “You Just Don’t Get It”
1 - Background I met Julie on a Friday afternoon about three weeks ago. I was standing outside of Boots on Carnaby Street, about to eat a snack, where I noticed her go by and IOI me. I ran in front and called out the elephant in the room and she giggled. She was late … Continue reading Date Report: “You Just Don’t Get It”
#41: Pumped And Dumped
This lay report won’t be in much detail because it happened over the course of a a few months, but there’s some interesting rumination at the end if you want to skip the scarce story. I’m counting this as a Daygame lay because… it was. But more importantly, I’m counting it for 2018 rather than … Continue reading #41: Pumped And Dumped
First Draft Complete!
The first draft of my 2016-17 memoir is complete and shall soon be winging its way to my test readers a la Nick, Nick, and Victor. I wrote the final sentence and must admit that a wave of relief, pride, and excitement passed through my body. Relief because now I can go back to regular … Continue reading First Draft Complete!
Quick Update
The first draft of my 2016-17 memoir is nearing completion, hence my absence from this blog in the past week and a half. Since I set myself the deadline of 28th Jan, I have to stick to it, but once it's over then I've got two date reports to write up and my January reflections … Continue reading Quick Update
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