It’s the Pride Parade in London this Saturday and I’ll be firmly staying away from Daygame. I asked about this on Twitter and the majority of Londoners agree with my sentiment: The reason I don’t like that day for Daygame is that I think it’s Fool’s Gold, similar to the Notting Hill Carnival and Camden … Continue reading Victory Parades
Category: ruminations
Is Game a Social Good?
Is Game a social good i.e. is it something that provides a positive externality? Today’s post is a thought piece using what people commented on my Twitter poll and my own thoughts. “Yes” won by a mile, unsurprisingly, but I think a lot of this is because many guys were answering the question of whether … Continue reading Is Game a Social Good?
Everything Else
I was winging with Senor Blanco yesterday and we were discussing the direction of our blogs and our aims for the current and following year. I won’t step on his toes and go over what he was thinking about - which would in some way commit him to a plan he may not yet want … Continue reading Everything Else
What Motivates Us?
This question has circulated my head a few times in the past year. Why do we try to get better at Daygame? Whether that’s improving ratios, higher quality or just sheer number of lays. What motivates us to get more than last year? What’s the source of that motivation? To start with we have the … Continue reading What Motivates Us?
13/30: Goal Ruminations
These were my two main 2018 goals: One lay in 50 approaches Two lays a month Ambitious goals, as I’m sure you will agree, for someone in their second full year of pickup. But at the start of the year, they seemed reasonable to me. My long term average was somewhere around one lay in … Continue reading 13/30: Goal Ruminations
Scottish Ruminations
This weekend I was away visiting a girl who I fucked last summer named Ganna. She’s Ukrainian but is studying in Glasgow, and while I was there I contemplated a couple of things. Firstly, as I was walking through duty free to get to my gate, I noticed something interesting which I’ve never seen written … Continue reading Scottish Ruminations
English Girls, the r/K Wilderness, Zen Daygame, and DNA Tug
“When I’m in London I feel like... a pretty girl”, Lina said to me a couple of weeks ago as we sat outside Carluccio’s in Covent Garden. It was as if she was afraid to say it, but felt as if she had to. To her, it was a dirty truth. She continued: “I look … Continue reading English Girls, the r/K Wilderness, Zen Daygame, and DNA Tug
February Ruminations
Daygame (and stats) 60 approaches, 17 numbers, 2 dates, 1 lay. I was on holiday for five days mid-month and had a girl come and stay with me for a weekend; it affected my results. Not only through the obvious - that I wasn’t in London - but also the fact that I was approaching … Continue reading February Ruminations
You’ll Never Have It As Good Part 2 (Comment response)
There were some good comments on my last article, so I thought that rather writing a few long comments I’d combine them into a post. Again, I’ll just be picking through my brain which will make the structure disjointed. I’m not trying to lay into the commentors. On the contrary, their messages have helped the … Continue reading You’ll Never Have It As Good Part 2 (Comment response)
You’ll Never Have It As Good
I was scrolling through Instagram today and realised it’s something I shouldn’t do much. Doing so reminded me that as a man, you will never have the sheer buying power of a young, hot girl. Now, it’s true that hot girls are rare, but hot guys are rarer, but you’ve still got to go out … Continue reading You’ll Never Have It As Good