I was looking through my list of questions and since the topic of stopping came up on Twitter recently I thought that it would be a good idea to answer this question: Thoughts on the Yad stop? In my opinion it’s too flamboyant and will make guys come across as metrosexual and lacking dominance. Plus, … Continue reading Q&A: What Do You Think of the Yad Stop?
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Q&A: What Should I Do If She Hasn’t Hooked?
Krauser had a post back in the day about Daygame being the “infinite experience machine” or something similar. Well the corollary to that is that it is also an infinite content generating machine… And that’s how we’re here today with another Q&A post from one of my students. I’m planning on writing a couple of … Continue reading Q&A: What Should I Do If She Hasn’t Hooked?
Online Dating
Last year I did some coaching calls with a guy living out in the states who only used apps to meet women. We were talking mostly about texting and Inner Game but I thought that I ought to walk the walk so I could talk the talk when it came to apps (or at least … Continue reading Online Dating
Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
I was inspired to write this post by a recent tweet but I won’t link to it here. The tweet described how the Daygamer approached a girl and then walked with her even though she was completely blanking him. Eventually she was about to step out into traffic when he grabbed her arm to pull … Continue reading Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
How to Lose Weight (15 Point Plan)
I have a student who needs to lose a little bit of weight. He’s hardly obese but he’s let his gut run away from him a little too much and needs to dial it back in. To help with that we’ve been sending each other daily weigh-ins, which I hope will continue to encourage him … Continue reading How to Lose Weight (15 Point Plan)
Beyond Daygame Guilt
We're already familiar with Daygamer guilt: the dissonance from thinking/knowing that you ought to be out approaching right now and the reality that you’re not. Or from being out on the streets and not approaching as much as your favourite guru might encourage you to. It comes from all the material you’ve consumed which tells … Continue reading Beyond Daygame Guilt
#95-100: The Punchline
“Life is a joke; death is the punchline” Someone, maybe me, I don’t know I made it. I finally made it! After years of arduous effort, long dark nights of the soul, epic introspection and even epic-ker LMR battles I reached the milestone every man dreams of: 100 lifetime lays. Okay, it didn’t actually take … Continue reading #95-100: The Punchline
What Makes A Good Student?
Here is the dirty secret of coaching: The student makes the coach Your coaching is only as good as the guy who it’s being directed to, or to put it another way: you can only lead a horse to water. It’s what the student does after the coaching session which dictates how successful he’ll be. … Continue reading What Makes A Good Student?
The Dangers Of Over-Optimisation And Burnout
I recently read this post by Pancake Mouse: “The Rebirth of Pancake Mouse: Year Two of Cold Approach.” The first thing I want you to do is to read the original article. Here’s the link. Go do that first. ***** Before getting into the article this is where I stand on Pancake, for clarity. I … Continue reading The Dangers Of Over-Optimisation And Burnout
Warsaw Revisited (Daygame City Review)
I recently got back from a ten day trip to Warsaw. It’s been three years since I reviewed the city and I want to revisit what I wrote and give some updates. Here’s the link plus other Daygamer’s reviews: My 2019 review Kaiser’s review Mikey Forrester’s review Wolfe’s review (Jan 2022) Wolfe’s review (May 2022) … Continue reading Warsaw Revisited (Daygame City Review)
Thomas Crown PUA 