It’s cold as hell, but I’ve set up at my little exam hall style desk with a mug of hot black coffee and the radiator on next to me. The golden brown crema sits lazily on top and steam laconically drifts up into air, filling my nostrils with rich notes of chocolate and creativity. Contrast … Continue reading Can Vibe-Free Pickup Exist?
Category: principles
Pre-Abundance
I’m writing this article off the back of a comment I made in the last post about how you can theoretically cast your net wider and increase the number of girls who you believe to be worth approaching. I initially titled that concept as “pre-abundance” and I want to expand on that here. Consider this … Continue reading Pre-Abundance
Reframing the +1 Text
I woke up this morning to a +1 text from Mazz. In the past I would have immediately followed that up with a “well done”, a “tell me the story” and knot of jealousy in my chest; I’m known for saying that seeing other people’s success got my competitive juices flowing. It’s one of my … Continue reading Reframing the +1 Text
Irrelevant Alternatives
I’m sitting in bed and not had my morning coffee yet; currently stewing in my sheets after a late night out with one of the main supporting cast to my life: Victor. To cut a long story short, we met after work and then went out for his girlfriend’s birthday. She brought along another girl … Continue reading Irrelevant Alternatives
The Sunk Cost Fallacy
I’ve just got back home from watching the first 70 minutes of Roma versus my beloved Chelsea (as if it was going to be any other team…). Chelsea were 3-0 down, and as that third goal went in, I remembered the sunk cost fallacy, got to work on the latter half of my pint, and … Continue reading The Sunk Cost Fallacy
