How Being In An LTR Has Affected My Daygame: Results, Impacts and Trying to Get the Best of Both Worlds

Recently I was asked to do a post on how my Daygame has changed since being in an LTR. This is that post. The first impact is a simple one: I have less time. Less time for Daygame itself but also less available slots for dates. I always prioritise seeing my girlfriend over scheduling dates. … Continue reading How Being In An LTR Has Affected My Daygame: Results, Impacts and Trying to Get the Best of Both Worlds →

Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF

“As it is not one swallow or a fine day that makes a spring, so it is not one day or a short time that makes a man blessed and happy.” Aristotle Now that’s a nice cheesy start, isn’t it? It’s a fact that habits make up who you are. The daily volatility doesn’t matter … Continue reading Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF →

The Three Connections and Family Background: What To Look Out For In A Girl Before Entering An LTR And Why

I know what you are thinking. That I’m only 28. What can I have to say of value on this topic? Well I’ve been in a relationship for three years (four if you count the time spent as FBs) and so I hope I have something to say on this topic which can help you. … Continue reading The Three Connections and Family Background: What To Look Out For In A Girl Before Entering An LTR And Why →

Topics Raised At A Night Of Drinking At Lee Cho’s: Crazy Things, Front Stops, Doing The Opposite and Age Filtering

The other day I was having some drinks with Lee Cho et al. Here are some of the topics that came up. How Crazy Things Can Become The Norm I remember from Krauser and Street Attraction’s talk at the end of 2017 where someone in the audience asked about what to say in-set. Nick made … Continue reading Topics Raised At A Night Of Drinking At Lee Cho’s: Crazy Things, Front Stops, Doing The Opposite and Age Filtering →

The Bank Of Vibe: An Analogy To Make You A Happier Person

Today’s post is just a short, simple analogy which you can put in your back pocket and take with you as you go. Imagine that your vibe is inside a bank account. You can make deposits and withdrawals. You sometimes pay fees. You can dip into your overdraft. You can get a loan. Fun stuff, … Continue reading The Bank Of Vibe: An Analogy To Make You A Happier Person →

My Sleep Stack: Everything I Throw At The Wall For Better Sleep And Why

Everyone’s talking about sleep these days. There are the obvious health benefits. We’ve known since childhood to get a good night’s sleep. But if you need extra motivation to improve your sleep quality and length then consider how it contributes to your personal energy. Personal energy is a term I picked up from Scott Adams’ … Continue reading My Sleep Stack: Everything I Throw At The Wall For Better Sleep And Why →

In One Ear, Out the Other: Staying Positive in a Cynical World

I have to admit something: I’m an optimist. I’ve always had a rough 6/10 baseline of hope and in general believe things will work out for me in life. Today’s post covers one of the tools I’ve found that I use to stay positive. It’s something we heard since we were kids: “in one ear, … Continue reading In One Ear, Out the Other: Staying Positive in a Cynical World →

How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Scott Adams. Chapter Six: Goals Versus Systems (Summary)

Recently Lee Cho recommended this book to me and I started to see it mentioned in a lot of places. I took that as a sign to read it. It’s very good and I recommend it. Today’s post is a summary of chapter six: the one where Adams introduces the concept of goals versus systems. … Continue reading How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, Scott Adams. Chapter Six: Goals Versus Systems (Summary) →

Luck, The Missing Ingredient (Part 2)

This post is the second of a two part series on the “missing ingredients” needed for successful Daygame. Read as much theory and learn as many techniques as you like and grow your SMV and you’ll still need these things to succeed. You’ll find the first post on the quality of “sisu” here. Luck is … Continue reading Luck, The Missing Ingredient (Part 2) →