After writing Demolition Lovers in 2018 I wrote a post that went over how I wrote that book and my reflections. Today’s post will do the same thing for my new book - Dead! - out Friday. Were the stages the same? Is my aim the same with this book? How do I feel now … Continue reading How I Wrote My New Book
Back in the Saddle, Again (Part 2)
A few months ago I wrote a post about my thoughts on getting back into Daygame. Since the UK has made an important step in easing lockdown today I thought I’d provide another one. To begin, here are my stats since I started Daygaming again: Sessions: 21Apps: 32#/SM: 11Dates: 2Date Flakes: 1Near Misses: 1Lays: 0 … Continue reading Back in the Saddle, Again (Part 2)
When To Push For A Number (Imprinting)
Sometimes girls just don’t play ball. You might have a great set, with good eye contact, proximity, good banter - good signs of her interest - but then she just won’t give you her contact details. Maybe she’s in a relationship, maybe she has a rule about giving her number out on the street, maybe … Continue reading When To Push For A Number (Imprinting)
Daygame Dichotomies: How to Develop Your Own Daygame Style
Today’s post is a simple one which should help you to develop your own Daygame style. It’s hard to think about building a Daygame style just like it’s hard to do Inner Game work. “Where do I start?” is a question I asked myself a long time ago. I think what helps in these situations … Continue reading Daygame Dichotomies: How to Develop Your Own Daygame Style
Post-Sex Interviews: How To Do Them, Why Do Them And What To Ask
Today’s post is all about post-sex interviews (PSIs). I received this email a few days ago and thought it would be a great opportunity to knock out a post to be released on Bank Holiday Monday when I’d actually like to be taking a day off. I’m writing this on the morning of Saturday 3rd … Continue reading Post-Sex Interviews: How To Do Them, Why Do Them And What To Ask
This Too Shall Pass: Why You Have to Push Through the Good Times and the Bad Times
We hear the phrase “this too shall pass” quite often and especially in times like these. But what if I told you we should be saying this in the good times too? Recently Cypher Daygame was talking about his stats on Twitter: 25 sets, 11 numbers and 0 dates. First of all he should be … Continue reading This Too Shall Pass: Why You Have to Push Through the Good Times and the Bad Times
Why Do We Calculate Approach to Lay Ratios: Thinking About Stats and Holding Contradictory Views
Here is a recent tweet thread where we went off on a bit of a tangent on A:L: The thread brought up a good point: A:L is meaningful for some people and not for others. I started to think, why count A:L? Why count stats at all? Should we count something else if anything? There … Continue reading Why Do We Calculate Approach to Lay Ratios: Thinking About Stats and Holding Contradictory Views
How Being In An LTR Has Affected My Daygame: Results, Impacts and Trying to Get the Best of Both Worlds
Recently I was asked to do a post on how my Daygame has changed since being in an LTR. This is that post. The first impact is a simple one: I have less time. Less time for Daygame itself but also less available slots for dates. I always prioritise seeing my girlfriend over scheduling dates. … Continue reading How Being In An LTR Has Affected My Daygame: Results, Impacts and Trying to Get the Best of Both Worlds
Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF
“As it is not one swallow or a fine day that makes a spring, so it is not one day or a short time that makes a man blessed and happy.” Aristotle Now that’s a nice cheesy start, isn’t it? It’s a fact that habits make up who you are. The daily volatility doesn’t matter … Continue reading Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF
The Three Connections and Family Background: What To Look Out For In A Girl Before Entering An LTR And Why
I know what you are thinking. That I’m only 28. What can I have to say of value on this topic? Well I’ve been in a relationship for three years (four if you count the time spent as FBs) and so I hope I have something to say on this topic which can help you. … Continue reading The Three Connections and Family Background: What To Look Out For In A Girl Before Entering An LTR And Why
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