Venue One Proper If you had to reduce the first venue down to the bare bones it would be this: the first venue is simply a conversation where you’re going to attempt to achieve three things: Pull her into your frame, and if so: Qualify her. Using this information you can: Decide on your next … Continue reading The Anatomy of a First Venue: Part Three (Aims, Body Language, Conversation and Escalation)
The Anatomy of a First Venue: Part Two (Initial Stages and Energy)
Initial Stages (Meeting) The golden rule of the initial stages is “be normal.” Get to the meeting point on time. In girl world anything up to 15 minutes late is on time so be ready for it. In fact, her being there early or within five minutes of the agreed meeting time is a small … Continue reading The Anatomy of a First Venue: Part Two (Initial Stages and Energy)
The Anatomy of a First Venue: Part One (Disclaimers, Assumptions, Closing, Texting and Selecting Venues)
Any general will tell you that knowing the terrain and position of troops is paramount to success. It’s the same in Daygame and dating: the most technical section is the street set and it becomes less technical from there. I thought about what the next most complicated part of the process is and settled on … Continue reading The Anatomy of a First Venue: Part One (Disclaimers, Assumptions, Closing, Texting and Selecting Venues)
#59: The Patron Saint of Sacred Cafe (Analysis)
Techniques presented in the same order as the lay report ***** Girls Are Phototrophic: it behooves you to hit the streets when they’re warmer because there will be a noticeable, although perhaps small, uptick in sets. Your mind will probably go straight to the spring and summer, but don’t miss out on the unseasonably warm … Continue reading #59: The Patron Saint of Sacred Cafe (Analysis)
#59: The Patron Saint of Sacred Cafe
Remember any (T) marks where I’ve used a technique of some sort that I want to draw attention to. The analysis post will be released one week from today. ***** It was an oddly warm February day (T) when I met Lisa, just up from Trafalgar Square on that street which, upon turning right again, … Continue reading #59: The Patron Saint of Sacred Cafe
10/03/19
Spring has rolled into summer and my brain is awash with thoughts just as the streets are right now. London fluctuates between floods of rain - hailstones today actually - and clear piercing skies. Add to that the wind and you’ve got a perfect storm brewing. The weather seems to have brought out more of … Continue reading 10/03/19
Recommended Reading Updated
I’ve been meaning to do this for a while: update the recommended reading list which lives at the top of this page. For a long time it’s stood unedited and un-added to. It’s also been more of a list of books I’ve read since I started Daygame, rather than an actual list of recommendations. Now, … Continue reading Recommended Reading Updated
#58: Low Hanging Fruit
I was out with Victor and his Turkish girlfriend brought along a friend, Beatrice, also Turkish, who I ended up fucking. I could actually end the lay report there but I’ll give some more details for the sake of data entry. She was… fine. Middle of the road kind of medium-rare girl but without any … Continue reading #58: Low Hanging Fruit
What Motivates Us? (Part Two) – The Issue of the Return to Nomalcy
This topic circled my head again today and leads on from part one (found here). I asked myself what motivated me, and I think I went very close to the crux of the matter: the coping mechanisms we develop as children carry out into adult life for better or for worse. Sometimes these coping mechanisms … Continue reading What Motivates Us? (Part Two) – The Issue of the Return to Nomalcy
10/02/19
A cup of Costa’s finest is on its way. Scratch that, it’s here. “Small white Americano!” “Yep that’s me!” “For the ginger.” The thirty-something barista definitely fancies me but of course I don’t act on it. With my coffee in front of me now I can set about recalling a recent delayed i-date. Let me … Continue reading 10/02/19
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