A wing here sent me this by GLL. Be interested in your thoughts. To sum up, you must screen hard for girls who are sexual. You must bin a “I hope she likes me” frame. I’d say they’re obvious points but the detail of it is debatable Recently a previous student/wing/friend sent me a podcast … Continue reading Q&A: Should You Screen Hard For Sexual Girls And Bin An “I Hope She Likes Me” Frame?
Category: Inner Game
Q&A: How Do You Avoid the Mentality of “Bothering” A Girl When Approaching?
How do you avoid the mentality of "bothering" a girl by approaching? I wanted to answer this question because it’s come up in conversation a couple of times recently. I’ll let you know what I think you should do first as a beginner, then as a lower intermediate and beyond before finally talking about the … Continue reading Q&A: How Do You Avoid the Mentality of “Bothering” A Girl When Approaching?
Online Dating
Last year I did some coaching calls with a guy living out in the states who only used apps to meet women. We were talking mostly about texting and Inner Game but I thought that I ought to walk the walk so I could talk the talk when it came to apps (or at least … Continue reading Online Dating
Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
I was inspired to write this post by a recent tweet but I won’t link to it here. The tweet described how the Daygamer approached a girl and then walked with her even though she was completely blanking him. Eventually she was about to step out into traffic when he grabbed her arm to pull … Continue reading Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
The Luck Factor, Richard Wiseman (Book Review/Summary)
I recently finished reading The Luck Factor by Richard Wiseman and want to convey its messages to you today. A while ago I wrote about how luck was one of the missing ingredients needed to succeed with Game. The question might be, then: “how do I increase my luck?” Well, the problem is that being … Continue reading The Luck Factor, Richard Wiseman (Book Review/Summary)
Spammers Have The Worst AA
I’ve got sausages in the oven and I need to get a post out, so I’ve set myself a ten minute timer to bang this one out. The only condition is to hit my minimum 400 words. “Spammers actually have the worst AA” is something I’ve been telling my coaching clients a lot recently. It … Continue reading Spammers Have The Worst AA
Reframing Negative Self-Talk
This post is going to be a quick and simple one, and describes another tool which I gave to Callum when we did some coaching on the weekend. As a beginner/intermediate, it can turn into a depressing time on the street if you let your negative self-talk get to you. That’s why you should identify … Continue reading Reframing Negative Self-Talk
Creating A Habit Of Charisma (Part 2)
About a month ago I wrote a post about creating a habit to improve charisma because it seems to be an underappreciated and under-worked trait in the Game community. I promised to read a chapter of Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People each day for 30 days - in fact, it’s perfectly … Continue reading Creating A Habit Of Charisma (Part 2)
Inner Game Round-Up
Recently I’ve been adding to an Inner Game category on this website - you can find all of the posts here - and today I want to highlight some specific ones and a central idea. It’s not all of what Inner Game entails, there’s certainly more to it than that, and I don’t know the … Continue reading Inner Game Round-Up
Do We Enjoy Failure?
I recently asked Lee Cho and Mr White the same question: “If you had to choose between these two options, which would you pick? Either, you get one lay in 100 approaches, but 99 of those approaches are blowouts, and then you get a SDL, or, you get one lay in 100 approaches but with … Continue reading Do We Enjoy Failure?
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