Part One can be found here (link) ***** Taking people in good faith means giving them the benefit of the doubt. It means taking a default position that people are willing to engage in win-win, collaborative interactions with you. If you want to stay in Game for the long run and have good Inner Game, … Continue reading Good Faith Game, Part 2: Why, Thought Processes and Boundaries
Category: Inner Game
Q&A: What Are Your Main Inner Game Challenges/Struggles At The Moment?
I recently received this interesting question on Twitter via DM’s: Hi Thomas. Got a question for your webpage. I really enjoy the inner game aspects you discuss. I am curious of one thing. As an experienced daygamer who seems to have his shit together, what are you main inner game challenges/struggles at this moment? One … Continue reading Q&A: What Are Your Main Inner Game Challenges/Struggles At The Moment?
Q&A: Should You Screen Hard For Sexual Girls And Bin An “I Hope She Likes Me” Frame?
A wing here sent me this by GLL. Be interested in your thoughts. To sum up, you must screen hard for girls who are sexual. You must bin a “I hope she likes me” frame. I’d say they’re obvious points but the detail of it is debatable Recently a previous student/wing/friend sent me a podcast … Continue reading Q&A: Should You Screen Hard For Sexual Girls And Bin An “I Hope She Likes Me” Frame?
Q&A: How Do You Avoid the Mentality of “Bothering” A Girl When Approaching?
How do you avoid the mentality of "bothering" a girl by approaching? I wanted to answer this question because it’s come up in conversation a couple of times recently. I’ll let you know what I think you should do first as a beginner, then as a lower intermediate and beyond before finally talking about the … Continue reading Q&A: How Do You Avoid the Mentality of “Bothering” A Girl When Approaching?
Online Dating
Last year I did some coaching calls with a guy living out in the states who only used apps to meet women. We were talking mostly about texting and Inner Game but I thought that I ought to walk the walk so I could talk the talk when it came to apps (or at least … Continue reading Online Dating
Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
I was inspired to write this post by a recent tweet but I won’t link to it here. The tweet described how the Daygamer approached a girl and then walked with her even though she was completely blanking him. Eventually she was about to step out into traffic when he grabbed her arm to pull … Continue reading Good Faith Game and Developing Empathy
The Luck Factor, Richard Wiseman (Book Review/Summary)
I recently finished reading The Luck Factor by Richard Wiseman and want to convey its messages to you today. A while ago I wrote about how luck was one of the missing ingredients needed to succeed with Game. The question might be, then: “how do I increase my luck?” Well, the problem is that being … Continue reading The Luck Factor, Richard Wiseman (Book Review/Summary)
Spammers Have The Worst AA
I’ve got sausages in the oven and I need to get a post out, so I’ve set myself a ten minute timer to bang this one out. The only condition is to hit my minimum 400 words. “Spammers actually have the worst AA” is something I’ve been telling my coaching clients a lot recently. It … Continue reading Spammers Have The Worst AA
Reframing Negative Self-Talk
This post is going to be a quick and simple one, and describes another tool which I gave to Callum when we did some coaching on the weekend. As a beginner/intermediate, it can turn into a depressing time on the street if you let your negative self-talk get to you. That’s why you should identify … Continue reading Reframing Negative Self-Talk
Creating A Habit Of Charisma (Part 2)
About a month ago I wrote a post about creating a habit to improve charisma because it seems to be an underappreciated and under-worked trait in the Game community. I promised to read a chapter of Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People each day for 30 days - in fact, it’s perfectly … Continue reading Creating A Habit Of Charisma (Part 2)
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