About a month ago I wrote a post about creating a habit to improve charisma because it seems to be an underappreciated and under-worked trait in the Game community. I promised to read a chapter of Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People each day for 30 days - in fact, it’s perfectly … Continue reading Creating A Habit Of Charisma (Part 2)
Category: practical
#76: Pretty Fly (For A White Guy)
I was winging with Mr White recently, just as lockdown lifted, and we were near Covent Garden. It was refreshing to see so many people walking about. Compared to just one week before, the volume seemed ten times heavier. I saw Jane walking up towards the station - tall (5”10’), slim, well dressed, 25 years … Continue reading #76: Pretty Fly (For A White Guy)
How To Slow Down In-Set
“When I’m doing a set I always think “21… 22” and it makes me slow down.” Kaiser That was some advice given to me recently by a German Daygamer - let’s call him Kaiser, for now - on how to slow down in-set. I asked him why “21… 22” and he said that in German … Continue reading How To Slow Down In-Set
How I Wrote My New Book
After writing Demolition Lovers in 2018 I wrote a post that went over how I wrote that book and my reflections. Today’s post will do the same thing for my new book - Dead! - out Friday. Were the stages the same? Is my aim the same with this book? How do I feel now … Continue reading How I Wrote My New Book
Back in the Saddle, Again (Part 2)
A few months ago I wrote a post about my thoughts on getting back into Daygame. Since the UK has made an important step in easing lockdown today I thought I’d provide another one. To begin, here are my stats since I started Daygaming again: Sessions: 21Apps: 32#/SM: 11Dates: 2Date Flakes: 1Near Misses: 1Lays: 0 … Continue reading Back in the Saddle, Again (Part 2)
When To Push For A Number (Imprinting)
Sometimes girls just don’t play ball. You might have a great set, with good eye contact, proximity, good banter - good signs of her interest - but then she just won’t give you her contact details. Maybe she’s in a relationship, maybe she has a rule about giving her number out on the street, maybe … Continue reading When To Push For A Number (Imprinting)
Daygame Dichotomies: How to Develop Your Own Daygame Style
Today’s post is a simple one which should help you to develop your own Daygame style. It’s hard to think about building a Daygame style just like it’s hard to do Inner Game work. “Where do I start?” is a question I asked myself a long time ago. I think what helps in these situations … Continue reading Daygame Dichotomies: How to Develop Your Own Daygame Style
Post-Sex Interviews: How To Do Them, Why Do Them And What To Ask
Today’s post is all about post-sex interviews (PSIs). I received this email a few days ago and thought it would be a great opportunity to knock out a post to be released on Bank Holiday Monday when I’d actually like to be taking a day off. I’m writing this on the morning of Saturday 3rd … Continue reading Post-Sex Interviews: How To Do Them, Why Do Them And What To Ask
Why Do We Calculate Approach to Lay Ratios: Thinking About Stats and Holding Contradictory Views
Here is a recent tweet thread where we went off on a bit of a tangent on A:L: The thread brought up a good point: A:L is meaningful for some people and not for others. I started to think, why count A:L? Why count stats at all? Should we count something else if anything? There … Continue reading Why Do We Calculate Approach to Lay Ratios: Thinking About Stats and Holding Contradictory Views
Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF
“As it is not one swallow or a fine day that makes a spring, so it is not one day or a short time that makes a man blessed and happy.” Aristotle Now that’s a nice cheesy start, isn’t it? It’s a fact that habits make up who you are. The daily volatility doesn’t matter … Continue reading Creating A Habit Of Charisma: Internalising HTWFAIF
Thomas Crown PUA 