2018 is looming and my big effort next year will be to break down my dating. Daygame and getting numbers are fine, but I want to unpack what I do on dates so that I can inspect what is, and isn’t, going well. I’ll settle on a format as I go along and in the … Continue reading Date Report (German Au Pair)
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It Will All End in Tears
Christmas is a time for couples: ice skating, mulled wine, mistletoe, etc, but while Daygamers take the winter off to shack up with a girl who they plan to shake off come spring, the unenlightened set their festive hooks further into their partners, looking forward to the year ahead. One unfortunate side-effect of the red … Continue reading It Will All End in Tears
How to Stalk Crown Over Christmas
Good morning chaps (I’m actually writing this the evening before, but I like to write and then schedule my posts… helps with the consistency you see). The title of this article is only partly true, I’m only revealing where I’ll be this coming Saturday: at Street Attraction and Nick Krauser’s seminar for a whopping six … Continue reading How to Stalk Crown Over Christmas
You’re Always Pushing Something (Motivational Post)
It’s Monday and in true, cheesy fashion, I’ve decided to schedule this motivational post for today. It’s probably coming at the wrong time of year for a lot of Daygamers considering their winter hibernations, but the lessons are easily carried into the new year. Get ready for me to swing the axe, tell you how … Continue reading You’re Always Pushing Something (Motivational Post)
What’s the Point? (Winged vs Solo)
Something that I had to work out over time, is that the purpose of winged Daygame is entirely different to that of solo. When you’re out solo, you feel like a hunter, with a list of sets to tick off on your phone. Your vibe rises and falls as you overcome your AA. You’re able … Continue reading What’s the Point? (Winged vs Solo)
Statistics
If you’re not keeping statistics, you’re doing something wrong. One of the most potent weapons in an intermediate’s arsenal is his statistics, vis-a-vis, a rough estimate of his ability, and without them he’s largely flailing. You need them to see where your bottlenecks are, from open to lay, and then where to direct your learning … Continue reading Statistics
Is “One a Month” Holding You Back?
“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of intermediate Daygame status, must be in want of one new lay a month” - Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice and Daygame It’s widely considered that the sign of an intermediate is to be turning over roughly one new girl each month. I … Continue reading Is “One a Month” Holding You Back?
Attracting Attention
At the moment, I have Cialdini’s new book on the go: Pre-Suasion; the art of making people suggestible to the persuader’s arguments before they’ve even begun their sales pitch proper. I was stuck for a moment, trying to think of what to write about today, but then remembered that the exact chapter I was on, … Continue reading Attracting Attention
Analysing Infields
If you’ve read this post, you’ll know that I waxed lyrical about recording my sets. It turned out to be an interesting inner Game, as well as outer Game, tool. I’m writing this post because I want to get some input from you, my esteemed readers, as to how to analyse infields. Let me go … Continue reading Analysing Infields
Game Holiday Wrap-Up
I’m sitting in my living room with my dressing gown on, having just returned from the last session of my mini Game holiday (you can see my thoughts from the midway point here). Since then, I’ve done another 36 sets and collected 8 more phone numbers, giving me the following total: 9 sessions 100 sets … Continue reading Game Holiday Wrap-Up
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