I’ve figured recently that weekend afternoons are actually a poor time to Daygame. Sacrilege, I know. My reasoning is that if you head out between 11am and midday then you’ll catch more solo girls as they are on their way to meet friends rather than heading out in the afternoon when they are already in … Continue reading #64: Long Live the Car Crash Hearts
#63: (And Die With Your Mask On If You’ve Got To) (Analysis)
Afterwork Daygame: everyone knows it’s a ballache to pack up at work, head home, whack your Daygame gear on and then head out with an effective vibe. One way to get over this particular difficulty is to make it as easy for yourself as possible. Don’t tell yourself your going to “hit the streets hard” … Continue reading #63: (And Die With Your Mask On If You’ve Got To) (Analysis)
#63: (And Die With Your Mask On If You’ve Got To)
It was a humid, overcast and sticky summer evening and I was out solo (T). So far I’d reeled off three sets and got one number: an American girl who was only in town for the weekend. She never came out (T). I turned onto Oxford Street and started making my way towards Tottenham Court … Continue reading #63: (And Die With Your Mask On If You’ve Got To)
Momentum
The problem with momentum is that you can’t go out looking for it, you have to wait for it to come to you. This post is as much a reminder to me that I should stick to what I do best, and not be tempted by the ‘dark side of Daygame.’ Last year, for a … Continue reading Momentum
The Stealth-On Super Slut
I think I’ve observed this phenomena enough to write a post on it. Let me describe a situation which many of us have been in: You’re on a date with a girl and you’re pretty sure she likes you. Maybe the date came off of the back of a strong set, or strong texting, perhaps … Continue reading The Stealth-On Super Slut
Narcissistic Injury and Game
I’ve been reading Sam Vaknin’s Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisited recently in an effort to understand myself better and improve my Inner Game. Whereas I don’t want to (and technically cannot) diagnose myself with any personality disorder I can’t help but read his book and think about how it applies to myself. Narcissism exists as a … Continue reading Narcissistic Injury and Game
Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Game
Recently I’ve been ‘working on my Inner Game’. That’s right. I’ve realised that this is the next frontier in my Game and this is where the growth is going to come from; as a person as well as for results. There will be a longer post on this process in the future but for now … Continue reading Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Game
Introverted vs Extroverted Daygame
I’m beginning to see a growing schism in Daygame: introverted vs extroverted Daygame. The former is defined by the number farm technique; go out there and in a short space of time overcome your natural introversion to collect a pocketful of numbers, which you gradually whittle down to the lay. The technique is the same … Continue reading Introverted vs Extroverted Daygame
#62: Dead Simple (Analysis)
IOIs: there’s so much that could be said here but I’ll focus on two things: 1) you should position yourself to get more IOIs by walking in the middle of any area, or as close as possible; I see too many guys skirting along the edge of the pavement, not thinking about their placement at … Continue reading #62: Dead Simple (Analysis)
04/06/19
A quick story came back to me last night which I wanted to share. It was from 2015 when I was still with my girlfriend - we’d been together for about a year and a half at this point - and she’d come to visit me at my university. We saw each other roughly once … Continue reading 04/06/19
Thomas Crown PUA 